Sunday, May 11, 2014

A little back story to get started "chapter 1"

I guess I should start with my parents.




                             "MOM"

Kym led a really hard life as a young child, her mom abandoned her and her two brothers when she was very young, leaving them with there abusive father. I had been told stories of violence and mental abuse they all went through. One story that stuck out to me was when my mom came home from school (she was 11 I believe) and her father was sitting at the kitchen table with a loaded gun sitting in front of him. He told her he was going to shoot himself in the head and she was going to have to just sit there and watch. Kym tried to talk him down which made him angry and he turned the gun on her. If it wasn't for a perfectly timed knock on the door by a neighbor who heard the yelling I might not have ever been born.....at least not as me.

My grandmother re married, Kym and her brothers went to live with them when she was 12, but by then the damage has been done. She was a broken person who never really became whole again.





                           "DAD"

Randy had somewhat of a better childhood, his parents divorced when he was a baby and his mom moved to Hawaii his dad stayed in Oklahoma where that part of my family is from. My dad was shipped between Hawaii and Oklahoma most of the first few years of his life. My my grandfather re married and the family moved to Southern California when my dad was about 4.  He mainly stayed with his dad and step mom with a few trips to Hawaii to visit his mom, they became fewer and fewer as the time went on till she moved to California when Randy was 10. Randy by this time haf become very angry and developed a drinking problem by the time he was just 13! Something he was never able to get under control.





       




                        " The two meet"

Randy and Kym met the first time at a party, Randy at the time was sleeping with Kym's best friend. Kym couldn't stand him, she said many times that just looking at him made her want to punch him. Randy trying to get her to warm up to him grabbed her and started tickling her, she begged him to stop and when he didn't she peed on him. Yes my parents first real interaction was when she peed on him (it really is a wonder I ever made it into this world).

A few months later was a school dance. My mom was only 16 at this point, dad was 19. Kym's best friends parents didn't like Randy, thought he was too old for her so in order for the two of them to go to the dance together Kym was the decoy. They would play it off as Randy was Kym's date and Kym's real date would pick up her best friend pretending to be hers and then they would switch at the dance (are you keeping up with this?)

Well the best friend and date never showed up to the dance (later it was found out they were in the back seat of his car doing the nasty). Kym and Randy decided to make the best out of the evening and that was how it all started. They hit it off and we're an official couple from that night on.

A few months later Randy went off to boot camp after joining the navy. Kym said she missed him so much that she planned on giving up her V card as soon as he got back.....and she did. 6 weeks later, the rabbit died.

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